A Little Bit About Me
Narrated Abu Said al-Khudri: Allah's Apostle said. "There will come a time when the best property of a man will be sheep which he will graze on the tops of mountains and the places where rain falls (i.e pastures) escaping to protect his religion from afflictions." Volume 4. Book 54. Number 519
My inspiration☝️
Halal and Tayyib
All things pure and natural.
I moved from London to live in Wales, the land where🐑out number people three to one! A hijra to the countryside of sorts. With the aim to follow the advice of our prophet so by Allah's SWT grace i moved out of the city as i felt the fitna had become such, where deen had to be protected.
And so...
Following my divorce...
I'm currently living on a large smallholding(not a contradiction😂), alongside 4 beautiful horses...sheep and chickens🐓🐓 in beautiful Welsh natural parkland... not far from a wonderful Muslim community centred in Carmarthen officially uk's safest town.
The land I've been blessed with needing to be shared... a project as a retreat and much more!
Some buzz words
'Taqwah'
'Tadabur'
'Tarbiyah'
'hayaa'
'Permaculture'
'John Taylor Gatto'
'Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyya'
A little about me...
I love with a passion to talk about deen💚. Walking, canoeing, archery, camping and all manner of outdoor pursuits these... always fisibilillah, are some of my hobbies, along side teaching martial arts. I'm a qualified pressure point therapist with keen interest in natural medicine- islamic and far eastern.
Striving to find the haq in all things, tarbiyah and sharing what i have (dawah) resonates deeply with my sense of purpose to worship Allah whilst racing to good deeds.
I value those who put the pleasure of Allah 1st, with humility and taqwah- If I'm unsure I would rather leave a thing than see it as the gray area in which for my nafs to play.
A little more....
I'm a poet and a writer in need of a romantic partner with whom I can complete my Deen. Intellectual stimulation is important to me, I don't mean degrees, just a life long love of learning and fascination for the intricacies of Allah sbwta's religion and creation. Warning: Sometimes the intellectual stimulation can get a bit much on my part, I blame that on the unfortunate fact of having two teachers as parents! But don't worry I really don't take myself that seriously at all!🌴🌞🌴
I resonate deeply with the need to see people fulfil their full potential spiritually, mentally and physically. Helping people on that journey no matter their age is a real passion of mine. I'm not a needy man as I've stood on my own two feet independently since a young age, younger than most. That doesn't mean I'm aloof, I would love nothing better than lots of cuddles on the sofa with a hot chocolate watching bayinnahtv learning about Deen. That would be a dream come true, as you can see I'm easy to please.
With me the cup is nearly always half full. When I remember the true meaning of Al Hamdulillah its full to the brim. ( and no it doesn't overflow, I'm not into ecstatic insanity!?!) Unless thats what you want😁 - no no, only joking!
I'm obsessed with martial arts and have been for some twenty years, not just for the fitness and self defence aspects, but more importantly as a means of expressing myself honestly, in an artistically physical way.
I believe in giving people their space, whilst being caring and compassionate allowing people to evolve and change with time being their true selves, I'm not forceful by nature. I love that Allah revealed there is no compulsion in way of life (deen). The right path has been made clear from the wrong path. Thats one of the reasons why I put good communication above all else in a relationship.
Before Islam I was a lyricist and involved with the music industry, on becoming Muslim I dropped it all and have recently rediscovered my passion for writing, especially poetry and the freedom of prose. Currently I'm writing two childrens books, which brings me great joy and pleasure especially as it's a realised passion that Allah as placed in my heart.(Oh no, I've set myself up for a fall, I said passion in my writing- not necessarily talent!)🤷♂️
My number one priority in life is the pleasure of Allah, keeping His word as the highest and learning from the wisdom of the Prophet PBUH. Secondly caring for my kids , who I see regularly and possibly you my future spouse, love of my life inshaAllah.
Flawed as i am, i welcome correction in fact i love it, believers should be mirrors for one another. I care for empathy, everyone is a book waiting to be written.
Islamically, i follow the middle path, i sincerely strive to understabd the deen as it was understood by the earliest of Muslims. I respect difference of opinion based upon evidence and i strive for unity!
Romantically i lean towards spontaneity and value the time needed towards furnishing a true relationship....for those that love to read into the personality traits, don't! Because I've been life conditioned away from many aspects and upon taking a full test i came out as ENFJ-a.
For the rest warts and all😂 we'll have to talk inshaAllah! May Allah SWT swiftly bless you in what is both pleasing to Him and you. 🤲 ameen
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What I Am Looking For
Love fisibilillah.
A romantic partner with whom i can share this short evening or morning of lifes adventure on earth. With the hope of being together in Junnah as soul mates. Someone who tries to put Allahs pleasure above all else. Grateful and quick to forgive each others short comings. Not being afraid to be a little bit wacky or silly with the games I sometimes like to play, more shortcomings I know you would definitely need to forgive. I love to think the best of people and would love to marry someone with the same forgiving nature. Someone who understands a marriage takes communication compassion understanding and compromise. Plus lovely romantic evenings to furnish the love. Compatibility can be found in the pleasure we get from pleasing Allah SubhanataAllah. Then inshallah the rest will fall into place.
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